Psychics & love readings • Notes from a professional clairvoyant consultant.

“But in the last reading you said…….. “

There are several areas of life where people are very attached to the answer they received in their last reading. One of these is a love reading. A person in love is often very attached to a reading where the outcome reveals that the person they care for will return to them, or that the relationship can be healed.

Sometimes, a reader can see that a former lover will be receptive to a relationship change, and sometimes a reader can see that if the forsaken partner takes a certain approach in courting the lost love, then that method will be the one most likely to woo the lover back.
However, these kinds of question, the kind in which the question is dependent on the other such as:

“Show me the outcome of waiting for my “ex” to return to me.” which is the best way to ask

  • “Will my lover come back to me.”

or again:

“Show me the outcome of reuniting with my former lover”, which is the best way to ask the questions:

  • “Does he/she really love me?” or
  • “Can we make it work?” or
  • “Is he/she thinking of me?”.

are the most difficult for an ethical seer to answer. Why?

The condition of the lover.

In part because often the seeker feels desperate and is emotionally willing to sacrifice their best interest to have the person they want “back in their life”. The seeker comes to the session “off center.”

As well, the former lover is not present. I believe it is energetically rude to invade the space of a person who may not be open to a reading. If your lover is no longer active in your life, if they have moved away from you, if they are in another relationship, it is more difficult o accurately see the future of a coupling that is yet to be.
As well, in romance, people may have love, hate, indifference, anger, and frustration for you all in the same hour while they are recovering from your relationship.

A good reader can “see” all these conflicted emotions your ex is having at the moment you ask, yet because that person is in their own emotional turmoil the best answer may be “I cannot see a clear answer to your question at this time.”

As well, it is possible your lover was never sincere in the first place!  You may have been deeply moved and have very strong loving feelings, your ex may not have had the same experience.

(Please note, if you are dating a married person, regardless of how often they promise that a divorce is on the horizon, the likelihood of your lover leaving a spouse for you is slender at best.)

If your partner has left your relationship and moved on to another relationship rather quickly, most would take this as an indication that the partner was not heavily invested in their relationship with you.

I do understand that you are in pain. Many times we have to watch our former lover choose a relationship we feel is dangerous or destructive and we want that partner to agree with us! To do what we think is right and best……… which is to return to our loving arms.

The important thought to hold is this: The world is constantly coming.

The last reading you had may have provided clarity, insight and direction. You may have made subtle internal changes in your understanding of things. You may have come to some realizations or some decisions.

An analogy:

If you take your temperature and have a fever of 104 degrees Fahrenheit, your doctor will advise you to bring that fever down to the body normal of 98.6 degrees as soon as possible.  If you fail to follow the advice of your doctor and continue to allow the fever to run then either

  • the fever will burn itself out while you suffer or
  • you will have seizures, convulsions, grow progressively worse from the infection or illness causing the fever.

Clearly treating the fever is the most healthy choice.

In a similar way, regardless of your decisions as a result of a reading, the next time you consult a reader of any kind, your life will be different from it was last session. The lives of your friends, family and loved ones will also be different because the illusion of linear time keeps things moving forward.

Therefore, it is best to be flexible and open when seeking answers about loving relationships. If last reading all was going well, things were on the mend, and then you became impatient, you had a blow up, you confronted your partner and demanded change, then you will have taken an action that negates the pleasant outcome we last saw unfolding in your last session.

Free Will & the Role of the Seer

You always have free will. You can choose to have a reading, disregard the answers revealed, and go on to do what you feel is best. When I do a reading of the Akashic Record for you, my responsibility is to tell you what I see.

I am not giving advice, I am answering your question. Recently I had a client send a note to try to “argue” the answers received during a session, as if I personally had given the answer.

This is not the case. To be the best at what I do – which is seeing the past, present or future as you require, the MOST important action I take is to get out of the way. My personal values, opinions, and preferences are not relevant. I leave “myself” behind when I read.

For one thing – if I have my own intellect engaged, it is very difficult to “see.” This is one of the reasons I don’t remember what I said in the last session. “I” am never really there. “I” am the gatekeeper to the Akashic. (I am open to other descriptors.)

It is rather like being a messenger, or last century, a Telegram Delivery Person. We don’t read the message, we just bring it to you.

In this way – it is not helpful to try to ask a different question to get a different answer. If the answer is “No.” then no matter how you approach the question, how many angles you work to “see” if you have a future with someone, the answer will seldom if ever change.

Moments In Time

All readings are based on the moment in time of the asking. Your state of mind, your intention, your distress all affect your future and the way you will interact with others relevant to your questions.

I realize this post should really be a podcast, and I may well post one soon. However, this topic is on my mind as I have done a few readings recently were the seeker seemed to really hope for an answer which as different from the one I was able to give.

To help provide insight to those clients, insight I don’t have time to provide when working, I have written this article.
As I have been in private practice for 20 years, I am fortunate to have the trust and custom of clients from many parts of the world. I am multi-culturally fluent, and hope to be of service to you as you see fit.

To schedule a consultation, please call my Studio at 904-993-7466.

For more information about my services, please visit my website.

Thank you for your attention,

Ann George

© Ann George Studios, Inc. 2016

 

Psychic Development Questions & Answers

I have received a few more e-mails from people now willing to explore their own psychic abilities. So as not to repeat myself, let me first refer to a previous post on this topic, “ Am I Clairvoyant”.

Here is one letter just received:

Hello,
I was wondering how to deveolpe my psychic ability. When i was about 6 or 7 years old, I started seeing strange “people” around places but i knew they were not alive. I told my mother about this and she sent me to the counsler at school. But when I told my grandfather, he told me that psychic abilities run in his side of the family. Later on my cousin started having the same experiences. Sometimes I have the feeling that something is going to happen, like a phone call, then seconds later it’s that person. Also, when my cousin & I are together it seems that it becomes much more srtonger. We have seen what we belive to be spirits. I hope you will find your time to help us.

Thank you.”

This question is quite straight forward & relatively easy to answer. First of all, a family member is validating that psychic ability runs in the family. In my experience, that is consulting with many people seeking to understand their own clairvoyant talents for over ten years, the gift seems to run along family lines. If one or more ancestors were gifted with second sight, it is reasonable that the writer is as well.

That the psychic ability seems more powerful when two gifted people are together speaks to a known metaphysical truth.. the more people seeing together, praying together, drumming together – the more powerful the experience will be.

The world is an energetic phenomenon, insubstantial, vibrating, ever changing. Some people are better able to sense the trembling of the interconnectedness of things.. to feel wings of the butterfly if you will.

The development of these abilities is very personal, and there is no way an e-mail can be of much use. I will reply with the standard suggestions I offer most who come to consult me about this matter.

First – you must be able to interpret your own experiences. To best accomplish that, it is critical to keep a journal of all psychic or paranormal events when they occur. Knowing the date, time and place as well as the particulars of an experience, such a seeing a spirit, or “knowing” when the phone will ring, can help you get in touch with the rhythm of your own gift.

Second – it is often useful to find a group of like-minded individuals to help you with your skills. Many towns have a metaphysical church, a spiritualist church, or meditation group. You might find a “meet up” online in your area. It is best to have help, if only to have a support group so that you don’t feel alone.

Third – please find a path. Some are drawn to Tarot, other to Hermetics, some to Eastern Philosophies and still others to Wicca. What ever path has heart, that calls your name… that is the path to follow.

Fourth – please abstain from the use of mood & mind altering substances. This will help keep you clear, orderly in mind, and more ethical in conduct.

I have collected a reading list to give a good overview of works I find reliable. Take a moment to review the titles and authors listed here.

I will post answers to a similar question in the paranormal section of this blog in the very near future. Thank you for your kind attention to my post.

Questions to Ask a Psychic

Here is a letter I received via my primary website that I find very useful. I am happy to post my reply here as I am sure the answer will help future clients be more familiar with the kinds of psychic readings I offer.
The Question:
Question about me and my husbands career/having a family future:
“I was told that I was going to be changing jobs/careers and I have so many things I could do but I don’t know what I should do or what I would be good at and be happy at. I was wondering if you have the ability to answer questions about the future. Thanks for your time.”

I will answer the easiest question first. I am able to see the future under certain circumstances. Every reader is different in style & method. I prefer to show my clients the future outcome of decisions they make or actions they take, rather than telling them what will “happen next”.

It may be easier just to say that I am a “Question Specific Reader” which means that I am able to see the future outcome of actions, events, decisions. I am also able to help you find the best path to accomplish your goals. I have published an in-depth article on the subject of
psychic questions and answers that you find useful to review.

In the case of the question above, where the writer is not sure which career direction to take, then I can offer some assistance. The best way to address the question above is to break it into parts. For example, I have so many things I could do but I don’t know what I should do is best answered by first asking ” Show me the outcome of choosing a new career as____________.”

My hope would be that as the writer has many things she is good at, and many choices to make, that she would ask to see the outcome of starting a career in a field that she finds interesting, that makes her happy, that offers her a sense of purpose.

I encourage all clients to remove the word “should” from their questions. I do believe we are all placed here with gifts to offer the world, that part of our purpose in life is to shine, to be the best people we can be, to do as much good as is possible, and on that path, we will find happiness.

It is also possible to ask “Show me the best path to happiness and success.” This is not an uncommon question at all. In fact, this question opens the door to all sorts of information that the seeker may find helpful. After the seeker asks that kind of question, I then ask the seeker to concentrate on the things that make him or her feel alive, satisfied, and useful.. whether those choices are known money makers or not. Often, it is what we love to do that is what we are “here to do.”

As I have mentioned in other posts, it is easiest to accurately see the future of decisions we make for ourselves. I am able to answer questions about loved ones, and their futures when the question is “Show me the best way to help my ___family member ___ find success.” or “Show my the best way to parent my child at this time.”.

While these questions may seem very general, they are the kinds of questions that open the door to see all that we may see to benefit your loved one. When seeing the future for others, I advise my clients that the minds of people are like the wind, easily changed. As it does matter very much to me that you receive a good reading, and that I answer your questions as accurately as possible, I will always encourage you to ask questions about things over which you have some control.

Thank you so much for your kind attention to this letter & my reply. I hope it is helpful.

Ann George