“But in the last reading you said…….. “
There are several areas of life where people are very attached to the answer they received in their last reading. One of these is a love reading. A person in love is often very attached to a reading where the outcome reveals that the person they care for will return to them, or that the relationship can be healed.
Sometimes, a reader can see that a former lover will be receptive to a relationship change, and sometimes a reader can see that if the forsaken partner takes a certain approach in courting the lost love, then that method will be the one most likely to woo the lover back.
However, these kinds of question, the kind in which the question is dependent on the other such as:
“Show me the outcome of waiting for my “ex” to return to me.” which is the best way to ask
- “Will my lover come back to me.”
“Show me the outcome of reuniting with my former lover”, which is the best way to ask the questions:
- “Does he/she really love me?” or
- “Can we make it work?” or
- “Is he/she thinking of me?”.
are the most difficult for an ethical seer to answer. Why?
The condition of the lover.
In part because often the seeker feels desperate and is emotionally willing to sacrifice their best interest to have the person they want “back in their life”. The seeker comes to the session “off center.”
As well, the former lover is not present. I believe it is energetically rude to invade the space of a person who may not be open to a reading. If your lover is no longer active in your life, if they have moved away from you, if they are in another relationship, it is more difficult o accurately see the future of a coupling that is yet to be.
As well, in romance, people may have love, hate, indifference, anger, and frustration for you all in the same hour while they are recovering from your relationship.
A good reader can “see” all these conflicted emotions your ex is having at the moment you ask, yet because that person is in their own emotional turmoil the best answer may be “I cannot see a clear answer to your question at this time.”
As well, it is possible your lover was never sincere in the first place! You may have been deeply moved and have very strong loving feelings, your ex may not have had the same experience.
(Please note, if you are dating a married person, regardless of how often they promise that a divorce is on the horizon, the likelihood of your lover leaving a spouse for you is slender at best.)
If your partner has left your relationship and moved on to another relationship rather quickly, most would take this as an indication that the partner was not heavily invested in their relationship with you.
I do understand that you are in pain. Many times we have to watch our former lover choose a relationship we feel is dangerous or destructive and we want that partner to agree with us! To do what we think is right and best……… which is to return to our loving arms.
The important thought to hold is this: The world is constantly coming.
The last reading you had may have provided clarity, insight and direction. You may have made subtle internal changes in your understanding of things. You may have come to some realizations or some decisions.
If you take your temperature and have a fever of 104 degrees Fahrenheit, your doctor will advise you to bring that fever down to the body normal of 98.6 degrees as soon as possible. If you fail to follow the advice of your doctor and continue to allow the fever to run then either
- the fever will burn itself out while you suffer or
- you will have seizures, convulsions, grow progressively worse from the infection or illness causing the fever.
Clearly treating the fever is the most healthy choice.
In a similar way, regardless of your decisions as a result of a reading, the next time you consult a reader of any kind, your life will be different from it was last session. The lives of your friends, family and loved ones will also be different because the illusion of linear time keeps things moving forward.
Therefore, it is best to be flexible and open when seeking answers about loving relationships. If last reading all was going well, things were on the mend, and then you became impatient, you had a blow up, you confronted your partner and demanded change, then you will have taken an action that negates the pleasant outcome we last saw unfolding in your last session.
Free Will & the Role of the Seer
You always have free will. You can choose to have a reading, disregard the answers revealed, and go on to do what you feel is best. When I do a reading of the Akashic Record for you, my responsibility is to tell you what I see.
I am not giving advice, I am answering your question. Recently I had a client send a note to try to “argue” the answers received during a session, as if I personally had given the answer.
This is not the case. To be the best at what I do – which is seeing the past, present or future as you require, the MOST important action I take is to get out of the way. My personal values, opinions, and preferences are not relevant. I leave “myself” behind when I read.
For one thing – if I have my own intellect engaged, it is very difficult to “see.” This is one of the reasons I don’t remember what I said in the last session. “I” am never really there. “I” am the gatekeeper to the Akashic. (I am open to other descriptors.)
It is rather like being a messenger, or last century, a Telegram Delivery Person. We don’t read the message, we just bring it to you.
In this way – it is not helpful to try to ask a different question to get a different answer. If the answer is “No.” then no matter how you approach the question, how many angles you work to “see” if you have a future with someone, the answer will seldom if ever change.
Moments In Time
All readings are based on the moment in time of the asking. Your state of mind, your intention, your distress all affect your future and the way you will interact with others relevant to your questions.
I realize this post should really be a podcast, and I may well post one soon. However, this topic is on my mind as I have done a few readings recently were the seeker seemed to really hope for an answer which as different from the one I was able to give.
To help provide insight to those clients, insight I don’t have time to provide when working, I have written this article.
As I have been in private practice for 20 years, I am fortunate to have the trust and custom of clients from many parts of the world. I am multi-culturally fluent, and hope to be of service to you as you see fit.
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